How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 06:34
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Can you share a story of someone who had a lucky experience while hitchhiking?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
How do I build rapport with anybody?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Ask yourself:
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Why are European countries warning European travelers to be careful traveling to the United States?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Procrastinates a lot.
Hangs out with loser friends.
What I need from you?
Does not procrastinate.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Can you describe what it's like to live in a town known for Harley Davidson motorcycles?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
That's it for today.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What will the legacy of Jimmy Carter be in light of his death today at 100?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.